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為什麼這麼難說 “沒有”? 出色地, 你當然要禮貌, 厚道, 和藹可親. 如果是你的老闆向你要東西, 你可能害怕失去青睞或機會. 如果是客戶或客戶要求某事, 你可能不想破壞關係.
但我想告訴你的是，在很多情況下你應該說不. 你應該知道怎麼說. 你需要清楚, 公司, 和誠實.
討論題
1. 你是否通常覺得很難說 “沒有” 當有人要求你做某事時?
2. 你說誰最難 “沒有” 至?
3. 你為什麼認為說 “沒有” 有時可能很困難?
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1. Most of time, refusing someone’s requirements is a little hard for me, even though I’m reluctant. So this article is a good topic for me to learn some important points for refusing agreeablely.
2. 出色地, for my relatives or my superior leaders, I always fail to say “沒有”.
3. Each of us want to be polite and agreeable, and do not want to shut the door in his/her face when they are asking you to help them out of a difficult situation. Also fearing that we would lose a good relationship.
1,有時, saying “no” to someone is very difficult for me. Especailly when my friends ask me to do something I don’t want to, it is really hard for me to say no. because I think refusing them will harm our relationship. 另一方面, I’ve no idea about how I can make it.
2,Saying “no” to my friends and my boss would be the most difficulty thing to me.
3,Because we have too many things to care about. We are not being clear, firm and honest enough. This article teaches me a lot. Next time when I want to say no, I would speak it out firmly.
Saying No Skills are very usefull, but refusing is alway a risky thing, since it depends much on the personality of the person to whom you say no.